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热心网友
退一步 是勇
争执不下时,切不可 迎前而上, 要忍耐; 不光忍耐, 还要退一步。 真正有魄力退一步的人, 是个真正有度量的人。
历史上有很多激流勇退的故事, 以前听了也没有太多感触, 但现在想起来, 那真的是勇气。 放下天下江山,丰功伟业, 放下名利, 退于市井或深山老林, 潜修悟道, 逍遥自在, 因他们懂得了人生真正的归宿, 决不是名利之场或红尘万丈中。
话说崔灏的诗:“日暮乡关何处是, 烟波江上使人愁“,曾看过很多对这句的解释, 都说他当时思乡心切。 我认为其实不然,作者经历过人生沉浮, 目睹过世态炎凉, 对于家乡的概念, 已不再是我们所理解的家乡。 他是在询问人生的真理归宿何在? 日已暮,而自己却还在江湖上飘荡。
套用《笑傲江湖》中的一句话, “有人的地方,就是江湖。“ 人与人之间, 争争斗斗, 尔虞我诈, 熙熙攘攘, 皆为利来利往, 爱恨情仇, 赳缠于滚滚红尘, 一如微风吹起千层浪。 步入归去,但有归去何方? 这正是崔灏的发问。
真理的出现, 不会以震惊四座的光艳示人, 相反,真理总是以平凡的外表呈现。 看人悟性如何, 在纷繁乱世中, 可还能认出。 能识别真理的人, 再进一步走下去, 才发现别有洞天。
小时候崇拜的很多历史人物, 后来发现几乎全是修道之人。 如:老 子,诸葛, 刘伯温。 最近看薛仁贵, 才发现, 他虽然没有修道,却有一颗道心。 他对人恭谦温和, 与妻恩爱有加, 看富贵荣华一如浮云, 说放下就放下。 从他开始, 薛家一连四代, 都是唐朝的栋梁将帅。他们若没有宽厚的仁德, 如何能演出这般精彩的大戏!
人生处世,贵在退一步, 能退, 是勇。 (转载)
热心网友
我看一次举报一次。
呵呵。
清者自清。何必理会。
真的,小孩子那么记恨还有的说,世界很小。
一把年纪了依然如此记恨,真的是活得不开心。
一个人下定决心让自己不开心的,他一辈子都会阴郁了。
并且,现在名目看着,我相信你这个告网友书不会有人举报,
反倒是那个害群之马被人唾弃。
百度自有公道。
世人心中都有秤!
PS:如果你50分给我,我会很感激。因为我现在是RICH队团长啦。
热心网友
写得不错,狂有文采,浪费在跟那种垃圾吵架上实在是可惜了
情深不寿,慧极必伤,强级必辱
那家伙是至贱无敌
热心网友
本人不知何时何事得罪了何人,10余日来其人一直紧随吾后狂轰滥炸,扬言定要将本人赶出专业英语栏目。每日里垃圾帖满天飞,少则三五,多则十数,大有不填平瑶池誓不罢休之意。本人以前不太来此逗留,只是最近两个月驻足略多,不意开罪该人,遭其追杀,害得大家不得安宁,实乃有悖本人初衷。本人原以为是时常因翻译问题与我pk的andychewbj先生作梗,现在看来否也。他给我的留言也表示了对该人的愤怒和谴责。在此我谨向andychewbj老先生表示最诚挚的歉意。
事起之初,本人不胜愤怒,急欲与彼理论,表明本人之分绝非作弊所得,几至有与其对簿公堂之心。但时至今日,本人愈觉此事日趋无聊乃至滑稽,乃决定不再与其纠缠,相信清者自清,浊者自浊,相信在座各位亦能明辨真伪。古人曰:仁者不忧,知者不惑,勇者不惧。老外said:Go your own way,let others talk!俗话说:听拉拉蛄叫还不收庄稼了?呵呵!自今日起,本人不对该人再作任何回应。同时也对该人提个建议,论坛者众人之论坛也,倘若与本人有意见,可私下交流,以求达成谅解,如此胡闹下去,对人对己皆无益处,害人害己之事,何苦为之?就此罢手,论坛之福,众网友之福也,三思!
最后借此机会,对帮助过我的人,和我帮助过的人,以及支持我相信我的朋友们表示衷心感谢!希望大家玩得开心!
What I do not know when they offend the person for more than 10 days of its people after the bombings I have been followed, threatened to set himself out to English section. Spam in a day all over the place, at least 35, as many as a dozen, most do not give up until filled means the Jade Pool. I used to not come here to stay, only slightly more attention the past two months, unexpectedly to offend the person by their hunted down,害得we will not be at peace, there really is something contrary to my original intention. I had thought that the problem is often e to the translation of my pk Mr. andychewbj block, has now also. He gave me the message also expressed the people's anger and condemnation. Here, I wish to express our sincere andychewbj his apology.
Since the beginning of things, I be angry, anxious and another theory that I am not cheating the proceeds of a few to have their hearts in court. But now, I愈觉this increasingly ridiculous and even boring, which is entangled with its decision to no longer believe that清者自清cloud since the cloud are, I believe that the authenticity of all of you here can extensively. The ancients said: benevolent not have to worry about, to know who perplexed, afraid of the brave. Foreigner said: Go your own way, let others talk! As the saying goes: do not listen to lala land crops mantis called the? Ha ha! Since today, I am not that person any further response. Suggestion to the people at the same time, the public forum of the forums also, if I have views and can be in private exchanges, in order to reach an understanding, so this nonsense of people are without the benefits of others, harm others and ourselves on the matter, Why do it? This stop, the Forum of China, also a blessing for many users, think again!
Finally, take this opportunity to those who helped me, and I helped people, as well as the support of my friends believe that I express my sincere thanks! I hope you have fun!
热心网友
哈哈,楼主终于放开了,以后走自己的路,让别人说去吧。
热心网友
楼主不必答理这种小人,时间长了,大家都知道他的阴暗心理,就当他是狗屎好了!踩他还脏了你的脚。